DORIS LESSING QUOTES III

British author (1919-2013)

Words. Words. I play with words, hoping that some combination, even a chance combination, will say what I want.

DORIS LESSING

The Golden Notebook

Tags: words


What a luxury a cat is, the moments of shocking and startling pleasure in a day, the feel of the beast, the soft sleekness under your palm, the warmth when you wake on a cold night, the grace and charm even in a quite ordinary workaday puss. Cat walks across your room, and in that lonely stalk you see leopard or even panther, or it turns its head to acknowledge you and the yellow blaze of those eyes tells you what an exotic visitor you have here, in this household friend, the cat who purrs as you stroke, or rub his chin, or scratch his head.

DORIS LESSING

The Old Age of El Magnifico


Often the mass emotions are those which seem the noblest, best and most beautiful. And yet, inside a year, five years, a decade, five decades, people will be asking, "How could you have believed that?" because events will have taken place that will have banished the said mass emotions to the dustbin of history.

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Prisons We Choose to Live Inside

Tags: emotion


My major aim was to shape a book which would make its own comment, a wordless statement: to talk through the way it was shaped.

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introduction, The Golden Notebook


You can only learn to be a better writer by actually writing. I don't know much about creative writing programs. But they're not telling the truth if they don't teach, one, that writing is hard work and, two, that you have to give up a great deal of life, your personal life, to be a writer.

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The New York Times, April 22, 1984

Tags: writing


London has changed enormously and so have the English in the past decade. They're more like Americans and more like Europeans, too. They're always eating out, and when they're at home they don't cook the way they did ten years ago. They're all sitting around in cafés, like the Continentals, drinking coffee and chattering and watching the world go by.

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interview, The Progressive, June 1999

Tags: London


Sometimes I dislike women, I dislike us all, because of our capacity for not-thinking when it suits us; we choose not to think when we are reaching our for happiness.

DORIS LESSING

The Golden Notebook


I think I am at the end of a certain phase of my life. What I'm on the lookout for now is the unexpected, for things that come from outside and that I never thought might happen. Sometimes you have to watch for them so you don't automatically say no to the new, simply because you're in the habit of saying no to everything that comes along.

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interview, The Progressive, June 1999


I do not think writers ought ever to sit down and think they must write about some cause, or theme ... If they write about their own experiences, something true is going to emerge.

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"All Things Considered", NPR, October 11, 2007


What's terrible is to pretend that the second-rate is the first-rate. To pretend that you don't need love when you do; or you like your work when you know quite well you're capable of better.

DORIS LESSING

The Golden Notebook


Some books are not read in the right way because they have skipped a stage of opinion, assume a crystallization of information in society which has not yet taken place.

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Partisan Review, 1973


I spend a good deal of time wondering how we will seem to the people who come after us. This is not an idle interest, but a deliberate attempt to strengthen the power of that "other eye," which we can use to judge ourselves.

DORIS LESSING

Prisons We Choose to Live Inside


Women's emotions are still fitted for a kind of society that no longer exists. My deep emotions, my real ones, are to do with my relationship with a man. One man. But I don't live that kind of life, and I know few women who do. So what I feel is irrelevant and silly.

DORIS LESSING

The Golden Notebook

Tags: women


The old watch the young with anguish, pain, fear. Above all what each has learned is what things cost, what has to be paid.

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Shikasta

Tags: youth


Oh Christ. I couldn't care less.... I can't say I'm overwhelmed with surprise. I'm 88 years old and they can't give the Nobel to someone who's dead, so I think they were probably thinking they'd probably better give it to me now before I've popped off.

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"Doris Lessing oldest to win literature Nobel", The Toronto Star, October 12, 2007


Sometimes I pick up a book and I say: Well, so you've written it first, have you? Good for you. O.K., then I won't have to write it.

DORIS LESSING

The Golden Notebook


Mostly getting old is boring. I hate the stiffness in the bones. I was physically arrogant for years. I don't like it now that I have difficulty getting around. But a certain equanimity sets in, a certain detachment. Things seem less desperately important than they once did, and that's a pleasure.

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interview, The Progressive, June 1999

Tags: old age


I think novelists perform many useful tasks for their fellow citizens, but one of the most valuable is this: to enable us to see ourselves as others see us.

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Prisons We Choose to Live Inside

Tags: literature


For she was of that generation who, having found nothing in religion, had formed themselves through literature.

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A Proper Marriage


At no time, anywhere, was the population of a country told the truth: facts about events trickled into general consciousness much later, if ever.

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Shikasta